The Matrix Story

well...most of us would have watched the matrix movie..and half of us wudnt have understood most of the story..... but those who have kinda grasped the concept please help me in finding answers to these questions..

if u had watched the first movie .. u might have noticed (i hope) that most of the numbers have a sum of the digits as 6 .. for eg: the room neo enters towards the end (room no. 303 so 3+0+3 =6)
is that some kind of hint that neo is the 6th one....

and then who exactly is the mother of the matrix..we ofcourse have come across the architect that is to say the father of the matrix towards the end of the second movie... and during his convo with neo he tells about a female program (designed to inspect certain aspects of the human psyche) that found a way to make 99% of the test subjects accept the program (ie as far as i can understand ... everyone born or bred by the machines are given a fundamental choice and tht choice escalated the number acceptin the matrix... the others of course constituted zion) .. so nw we come back to the primary question .. who exactly is the mother of the matrix... it cudnt be oracle coz when neo asks him he says "Pleeeeaaaase..." in an exasperated tone that sounded like "xcuze me obviously its not her..." so who is the mother?????

I am actually confused by the concept of the anomaly....now how cud neo bein a human carry some code ... and how exactly does he control those machine tryin to attack nebbachudnazzer ...
and also he controls the machines when he tries to go to the machine mainframe towards the end of the third movie....

finally what is so special about the spoon that he recieves before he goes to meet oracle in the third movie ... given to him by the guy who claims that neo had saved him.. and he says..they said you would understand..neo probably understood the catch behind the spoon... but i did not.. probably its somehow related to the spoon that is bent by that kid in the first movie.. but that spoon did not exist as said by that kid ... (along with his intriguing dialog... "kid:its not the spoon that bends its yourself.. however try to think the obvious".. neo:"what"...kid:"that there is no spoon"...he was ofcourse one of the probables of bein THE ONE)

there are more ... but i think these are the more pressing ones....

so those who have had the patience to read the post and who are matrix freaks...please try to answer these....

good luck...